As an admitted fan of that dark elixir made from cacao beans, I have never understood or appreciated its consignment as something "sinful." There is nothing innately bad about it, and the scientific evidence keeps growing that dark chocolate is a health food, imparting great benefits to those who absorb its gifts. The pleasure it provides is truly a gift from God!
So, why would anyone consider banishing it from his or her life during the 44 days starting on Ash Wednesday and ending on Maunday Thursday? To say "no chocolate" only makes me more aware of it, and therefore the separation more difficult. I go without chocolate for days, even weeks at a time, and would never even notice. But if I am stupid enough to say I will not eat it for a certain time period, then I think about it constantly. So how does that provide any benefit to my soul or spiritual life?
Bruce
I think you are right, Bruce. Having a negatively stated goal for any endeavor is probably a strategy for failure. Deprivation is quicksand for our highest spiritual aspirations, as well as our more mundane ambitions like losing weight,giving up cigarettes, less texting / twittering, etc.
ReplyDeleteI'd rather take my chances with a plan that began with making room in my life for MORE of something that enriched and fulfilled.
I never could figure out the spiritual point of Saying "I gave up (insert item here)for Lent" The focus is more on how many more days than on reconciliation. I'm personally giving up Champagne Breakfasts so I can maintain my focus.
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